How not to be a douche while kiting
Kiteboarding is often portrayed as a welcoming community with a relaxed vibe where people are approachable, friendly, and always ready to lend a hand. But, like any sport, there are moments that can ruin the experience for others. We've all been there: waiting to land our kite while everyone around seems too preoccupied or feeling like some people think they’re above everyone else. If we want to keep the good vibes flowing, we all need to do our part to ensure a positive experience on the water. Here’s how you can avoid being a douche and help make the day enjoyable for everyone.
Help land and launch kites
Landing a kite takes less than 10 seconds of your time, so if you see someone signaling for a landing and you’re able to help, step in and do it. When launching a kite, why not offer to hand over their board, too? It’s a small gesture, but it makes a big difference in showing that you care about others. Plus, good karma points!
Understand the water is for everyone
It feels awesome to line up that perfect jump or trick, but remember: the water is a shared space. Don’t expect others to make room for you just because you're about to do something cool. And if someone unintentionally gets in your way, don’t get mad — they likely didn’t see you coming from behind. Instead, consider explaining to them how to check their surroundings before turning, since you have limited maneuverability when airborne. This helps everyone stay aware and safe.
Give right of way – but be flexible
Even if you have the right of way, you can still be considerate by adjusting your course slightly to avoid putting someone in a tough spot, like heading towards rocks or other obstacles. Kiteboarding is about fun, not about proving a point. Safety should always come first.
Apologize when necessary
Did you accidentally splash someone or get a little too close for comfort? A simple "sorry" in the moment can go a long way in keeping things friendly and light-hearted. Owning up to your mistakes shows respect for your fellow kiters and helps maintain a positive vibe on the water. If things get hectic during your session and you don’t have the chance to apologize right away, don’t worry — a quick apology afterward still counts and can help clear the air.
Respect space – especially when entering the water
When you see someone entering the water, don’t be the person who kites past them with just a meter to spare. Give them the space they need to get settled and start their session comfortably. It’s a simple courtesy that can prevent accidents and keep everyone in a good mood.
Stay aware and be ready to help
The kite spot is a shared space, and everyone is there to have a good time. Staying aware of what’s happening around you and being ready to help out when needed creates a safer and more enjoyable environment for all.
Bonus tips
Cheer each other on: If you see someone nailing a trick or trying something new, give them a cheer or a thumbs-up. A little encouragement can boost someone’s confidence and add to the positive vibe.
Compliment after sessions: After the session, don’t hesitate to compliment someone on a trick you saw. It can make their day and foster a friendly atmosphere.
Be friendly: A smile or a friendly wave can set the tone for the day. Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation with a fellow kiter.
Offer help: If you see someone struggling, whether they’re setting up, packing down, or tangled in lines, offer a hand. You’d appreciate it if they did the same for you.
Share your knowledge: If you’re experienced, share tips with beginners or those looking to improve. A little guidance can go a long way.
By following these simple tips, you not only avoid being a douche but also help create a more positive, fun, and safe environment for everyone. After all, the kiteboarding community is only as good as the people in it. Let’s make sure we keep it awesome!
And don't forget: monkey see, monkey do — when you set a positive example, others are likely to follow. So be the trendsetter who spreads good vibes on the water!
xox Berit